Recognizing patterns is something I do from time to time. Sometimes I don’t recognize it until too late though.
When I was being told off by my friend I didn’t see what it reminded me of, until this morning. Something pointed me out to the pattern I have seen before. What I was reminded of was how my first teacher was after she turned to the dark side of the force.
Now, I’m not saying that my (ex) friend has turned to the dark side, but it felt exactly like it. Maybe this happened to make me aware that such things can. Being much more vigilant now.